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Machiavellianism: A Discourse with Leon Romano

April 19, 2021 by Artful Prudence Leave a Comment

Today’s issue is a rather creative diversion from my usual writings. I will be engaging in a dialogue with my fellow comrade and sensible thinker, Leon Romano [You can check out his work here], to discuss and expand on various themes concerning Machiavellian reasoning, utility, and practice in the modern world. To stimulate a creative and organic conversation, with the hope of exploring and bringing to light various concepts and perceptions. Furthermore, we intentionally kept the form of this dialogue relatively boundless within the confines of Machiavellianism, adapting to the natural course of the written exchange. Nonetheless, I shall propose a point of origin from which we can make a start to this conversation to avoid unwanted ranting.

ArtfulPrudence: Firstly, I would like to express thanks to Leon for taking on this piece of writing. Leon Romano’s writing is evocative, rich and profound. I happened to have stumbled on his work by mere accident months ago and have found myself deeply resonating with his reasoning and articulation. 

Anyhow, as our point of departure, I would like to draw reference to an excerpt from Machiavelli’s The Prince, where he observes, “You must understand, therefore, that there are two ways of fighting: by law or by force. The first way is natural to men, and the second to beasts. But as the first way often proves inadequate one must have recourse to the second. So a prince must understand how to make a nice use of the beast and the man.” 

Upon reciting this, one of the opening connections I make is to Jung’s concept of the shadow, which fundamentally represents those aspects of our personality which we would rather conceal than expose. Such traits are usually attributed to immorality and unrighteousness and our attitude towards said vices tends to be one of terror and unease rather than an open spirit of inquiry towards their potential usefulness. 

Furthermore, what Machiavelli is pointing at through his utterance is the capacity for a man to be wholly integrated with his ‘dark’ side (I suppose this is why integrity is generally so indispensable for man). The capacity for immorality is immensely useful when it is calculated and tempered by caution, chiefly for man. Without such a propensity for vice, man is not fearlessly in-tune with that side of himself which is aggressive and harsh, able to impose force, protect, and preserve his lineage. In spite of that, such a faculty must be polished by discrimination and good judgement, employed with caution, necessity, and intention.

Leon Romano: I thank ArtfulPrudence for his invitation to this dialogue. I am impressed by his body of work and feel likewise about his writings, so I am glad to have been invited to contribute. 

The issue of Machiavellian morality and utility is a very interesting matter that I consider to be of importance to men. A greater understanding of this subject is certain to contribute to the betterment of men, their character, might and eventually their sense of duty and capacity to achieve. Throughout history the teachings of Machiavelli have been villainized and he has been equated with the devil himself, considered by some to be immoral and callous. Yet nothing could be further from the truth and any man that has ever held power has been forced to acknowledge the necessity of cunning, ruthlessness and pragmatism for the sake of the common good. 

The divergence occurs when it comes to the issue of to what ends these methods are used. These methods are equally used by both the forces of good and the agents of evil. It is therefore wise to consider the serious disadvantage you put yourself at if you allow for evil to make use of all available methods and tools, but you limit yourself to the adherence of self-imposed restrictions that hinder your ability to achieve and combat the enemy.

I have said before that all righteous men must have the capacity to strike fear into the hearts of their opponents, to keep evil at bay and justice intact. To not only face danger, but to become danger itself if the situation necessitates it. In the words of Machiavelli, you must be capable of being both beast and man. Each man is naturally gifted by the strength, fierceness and courage of masculinity. It would be unwise to reject this gift and impose upon yourself boundaries that restrict your ability to use the beast to achieve your goals.

ArtfulPrudence: To briefly expand further on the notion of the beast in man as it relates to Jung’s concept of the shadow, there is a well known saying that if a man’s origins don’t reach down to hell, he has not reconciled his polarity – such a man lacks profundity and depth as a consequence of internal conflict or discord. Such a dispute takes place when a man is still in denial, fearful and apprehensive of his design. When there is internal denial, there is contradiction and dismissal of something which must be attended to and accepted. Acceptance, in this aspect, is liberating; a form of transformation rebirth which unravels a man’s character and elevates it towards something which is, in its totality, upstanding. To be both beast and man, as Machiavelli says, is to consolidate both the barbaric and the benevolent, the merciful and the vicious. 

There will be circumstances where benevolence is more suitable than cruelty, other times where imposing cruelty is inevitable and benevolence inadequate. In the absence of either, you have an unstable and unhinged disposition which is not wholly adapted to combat the ruthlessness which likely affairs demand of man. Life is polarity, and unless you come to strengthen, stabilize and unite your opposites, you will find certain affairs to be burdensome and taxing, not necessarily because they are laborious, but because you lack the appropriate characteristics that would prove beneficial in a said event. 

One must remember, good and bad are inseparable in nature. That preconceived notion that one must expose his virtues and conceal his vices is in itself a manifestation of duplicity, why should someone be dishonest about his dishonesty? I’d rather trust someone who’s frank about his dishonesty than someone who deliberately conceals his dishonesty; which once more, is a manifestation of more dishonesty. We see such custom without a break in western culture, the terrible hypocrisy and double dealing of ordinary people trying to pretend to themselves that they are principled and absent of vice – what a falsehood. The irony of it all is that their continual secretion is hypocritical and by no means righteous. 

In any case, I digress. In connection with the notion of the beast and man, Machiavelli also intimates that a man must have the capacity to terrorize and discern, to rouse fear in others as well as possess a heightened discrimination to evade miscalculation – he goes on to say, “The lion cannot protect himself from traps, and the fox cannot defend himself from wolves. One must therefore be a fox to recognize traps, and a lion to frighten wolves.” To be unnerving while lacking shrewdness is insufficient, but so is shrewdness while lacking formidableness. You see, shrewdness and formidableness must have each other’s backs to both fluster and unnerve the enemy, as well as elude his pitfalls and utilize them. The fox is canny, the lion menacing, infuse both and you have a wholly dangerous man who is feared for his savagery and respected for his intelligence. (Vladimir Putin is an exemplary figure who epitomizes this archetype.) 

It is important for a person to acknowledge that everyone has drawbacks which could be leveraged, whether for better or worse – these vulnerabilities should be treated with care so as not to lessen the force of our strengths or make us ignorant of our useful faculties. In addition, one should not be stupid with his manner, brazenly laying bare his weaknesses in the open so as to seem transparent or conspicuous. Such conduct lacks caution and sense. If you knew that a sore will aggravate if left without a bandage, you would not dispose of the bandage to let the sore inflame. In the same way, you should not strip your weak spots and let them germinate. If you are aware of your weaknesses, you must endeavour to renew them by deliberately shunning away from endangering them, while diligently reforming them to your benefit. 

Leon Romano: It is unfortunate to find that many have a superficial understanding of Machiavelli’s teachings and believe its application requires you to be a heartless savage. All of Machiavelli’s lessons are out of a practical necessity, taking into consideration the realities of man’s nature and accepting the cunning ways in which men obtain and maintain power. From the quotes ArtfulPrudence has shared, Machiavelli repeatedly and purposefully makes clear that a certain duality is required to attend to one’s affairs, to be both man and beast and fox and lion. We must be righteous, kind and compassionate to those that deserve it and when it is possible, but we must equally be capable of unleashing hell unto those that wish to sabotage and destroy us.

To put it as simply as possible: To be good, requires one to understand evil, and to use evil for good requires one to be capable of evil first. It matters not whether you disapprove of Machiavelli’s methods, if you are not applying them then they will be applied against you. Machiavelli made this clear in the following passage from The Prince: “Any man who tries to be good all the time is bound to come to ruin among the great number who are not good. Hence a prince who wants to keep his authority must learn how not to be good, and use that knowledge, or refrain from using it, as necessity requires.” He goes on to also state: “One who deceives will always find those who allow themselves to be deceived.”

Ultimately every ambitious man is forced to face the truth about the dynamics of power. Whether one wishes to acknowledge and accept Machiavelli’s teachings or not, they are universally applicable and inescapable to those climbing the ladders of power. Machiavelli understood that ruthlessness and deception are an art form inescapable to the ambitious. For it is through ruthlessness that man can transcend the boundaries inhibiting the inferior opponent. Either you are willing to do what must be done to ensure the right outcome or they will be dictating the outcome to you. Understanding this reality is of great importance. No matter how much you wish to assume the goodness in others or insist that they are well-intended, it will make you the prey of the ruthless.

It must also be stated that it is crucial not to allow this to corrupt your heart and soul. For if these lessons are misunderstood, they could very easily be abused in service to evil. Machiavelli’s knowledge and lessons are a miraculous gift, but they come with social and moral responsibilities. They are not to be used frivolously and chaotically, leading only to destruction. Only men that are both wise and decent, can be trusted to know when it must be enacted and to which extent.

ArtfulPrudence: In summation to what Leon has expressed, knowledge and strategy is all about application; if that application is not grounded in honour and good sense, you are bound to meet with misfortune or calamity. Many people read Machiavelli and fail to acknowledge the fine nuances which make his work noble, they make the initial presumption that his writings are intended only to impose immorality, but this is not valid. A person should not read Machiavelli with a myopic perception of good and evil, especially if he can’t fully comprehend the depth of his teaching which gives it its essence – Machiavelli is amoral, he is not preaching vice in the absence of virtue. Rather, he is articulating the nuances of employing both with shrewd wisdom and proper discrimination to be generally good and selectively bad, when necessary. 

I believe his teachings, if tempered by honour and sense, can prove to be transformational when bestowed to the right person with the appropriate traits. As Machiavelli says, you do not learn to be bad so that you can no longer be good – you must develop the basic equilibrium to know how to employ both with a dash of caution and good sense. Among the many who are not good, your goodness may demonstrate inadequate and thus demands of you to employ an element of ruthless monstrosity, not because you’re generally a monster, but because you must be fearsome to battle other monsters who want to exploit you for their benefit. As a general principle, a man who has cleverly integrated his ruthlessness with his goodness is more dangerous than a man who hasn’t. Not only that, but an integrated man can impose more good as a consequence of his ruthlessness than someone who lacks that element of danger. 

Man has an inherent virtue to protect; to keep his relatives and loved ones safe, he must be dangerous enough to know how to make others fear him; if not by law, then by force. If it is the latter, he is inevitably compelled to unleash the inner monster within, for better or worse. To be ruthless, then, is simultaneously to be merciful, because a man who is capable of both is worthy of high regard and admiration. Even still, ruthlessness alone is not enough, it too must be tempered by perception; you should know which battles to undertake and which to avoid, which are beneficial and which are useless. Furthermore, you should cultivate a capacity for foresight: the ability to detach from the immediate condition and strategize your next few moves, not only to hold the upper hand, but to consider whether a war is worth fighting, so to speak. You can’t teach swiftness; it comes through experience, but the ability to rapidly make a calculated decision is very useful, a sharp acuteness circumvents foolishness, in many respects. 

I would like to elaborate further on Machiavelli’s remark, namely that “One who deceives will always find those who allow themselves to be deceived.” Truthfully, a man who is competent in cunning will never run out of stooges, why? Because certain people like to be deceived, they simply don’t want to be made conscious of it. What’s more, a cunning man knows how to keep them ignorant of this verity while renouncing any impression that he might be leveraging their ignorance. A cunning man knows the triggers, he understands human nature; he knows, for instance, that by appealing to their interest to reach his end, or by endowing them with a favour before asking for something are enticing baits that play on people’s emotions. The emotionally vulnerable, especially, are easy to exploit because they are almost too sympathetic and caring to turn down an offer or fail to comply with a tempting lure. Such people allow themselves  to be exploited, because they don’t possess sufficient cruelty to take a countermeasure to their benefit, thus they end up complying against their will because the alternative is too heavy a burden on their emotions. 

Leon Romano: The beauty of Machiavelli’s teachings is that it is applicable to essentially all affairs in life. Whether it be statecraft, business or even interpersonal relationships. Even though his most famous work, The Prince, was written for a monarchical ruler, the Machiavellian approach and knowledge grants one the capacity to think in the grand scheme of things — to see the bigger picture.

It relieves one of hopeless idealism and grounds you in the reality we actually find ourselves in, allowing you to accept the true nature of man. Acknowledging the beauty whilst remaining aware of the ugliness. A true understanding and acceptance of the uglier parts of humanity allow one to leverage it in his favour. Machiavelli did not shy away from the uglier parts of man and had the following to say on it: “For this can generally be said of men: that they are ungrateful, fickle, liars and deceivers, avoiders of danger, greedy for profit; and as long as you serve their welfare, they are entirely yours, offering you their blood, possessions, life and children… when the occasion to do so is not in sight; but when you are faced with it, they turn against you.”

Machiavelli made it abundantly clear that the wise and ambitious man must take into consideration the wickedness and selfishness man is capable of, and that we must understand and accept this reality. We are not to shy away from using the same methods that it is utilizing against us, but must instead learn to leverage these realities in our favour. We do not find ourselves in an imaginary ideal, we never have and never will. For virtue will always continue to coexist with vice. It matters not whether we wish for it to be different or not, it is the reality we find ourselves in. Machiavellian methods are thus not a matter of choice, but a necessity in life.

We exert far more power over our lives and our eventual faith with this understanding in mind. Acceptance and awareness of this reality elevates one to a greater capacity to influence the world around him. To shift the odds of fortune and to bend the will of men in his favour. 

To conclude I leave you with a summation of this by Machiavelli: “How we live is so different from how we ought to live that he who studies what ought to be done rather than what is done will learn the way to his downfall rather than to his preservation.”

ArtfulPrudence: To wrap up this discourse, I would like to add a few more remarks that harmonize with what Leon so eloquently set forth. Namely, that Machiavelli recognized what man is capable of doing as well as what he has done. His teachings are not idealistic in nature, they are rather pragmatic and clear-sighted; which is why, I believe, many find it hard to grapple with his reasoning; it gives a critical account of how things are, not as he wished them to be. Time and again, Machiavelli gave account of what makes man wicked and detrimental, he understood the extents of avariciousness and deception and he deliberately cautioned others against them in his writings. 

More than anything, we should rid ourselves of the notion that there is such a thing as virtue without vice, this is simply wishful thinking. They are two sides of the same coin, as it were, and a whole person is one who has integrated both. Man will not prosper whenever he attempts to eliminate one for the other, for this will only take away from its polar opposite, and that too is counterproductive. Most of all, a good life should be aligned with virtue, but not absent of vice. The inevitable vices which come with power are beyond our control, but those things which we can control and which don’t call for ruthless action, are to be treated with righteousness, honourableness and integrity. Wise words and heroic deeds. It is one’s capacity to discern circumstances with perfect lucidity and reason that ennoble his nature and undertakings. 

Largely, people go through life living in opposition to their inherent strengths and potential; they don’t live as they ought to, but as their bigotry compels them to. Confronting Machiavellian teachings and applying them is taxing, it is not a walk in the park, it requires restraint and persistence, it also requires an indifference to prejudice – these duties are not easy, as they are meant to be exacting, calling for a mark of self-control and scrutinization. Is it harder than complying with prejudice? Absolutely, but that’s not the only reason why Machiavelli’s teachings aren’t in the forefront – it requires a fertile intellect and perception coupled with a sense of openness to comprehend them. 

Truthfully, if you share such knowledge with people who lack these qualities, they will not know what to make of them, not to mention consider them or apply them. That being so, the only people who deserve them are the ones who seek them and have an unlatched curiosity and sensitivity; since the people who don’t will either disregard them or misuse them – but they might attempt to comprehend them with little fortune.

Further Reading

  • Niccolò Machiavelli: The Prince
  • Niccolò Machiavelli: The Art of War

Filed Under: Machiavellianism

Stoic Maxims for Strong Men

April 12, 2021 by Artful Prudence Leave a Comment

“Do not seek to have events happen as you want them to, but instead want them to happen as they do happen, and your life will go well.”

Epictetus

Ensuing are a selection of stoic aphorisms which I have put together for your perusal and contemplation. The aphorisms are thoroughly influenced by Epictetus, one of the foremost stoics of his time, among others such as Seneca and Aurelius. Meditate on these notions and reflect to better comprehend.

Maxims

1. We do not own our body, property, fame and office, we own everything that is naturally unencumbered and unrestricted. Things outside our ownership are weakly and obstructed.

2. Pursue great aims unreservedly, not passably. You must temporarily disown some things while putting off others.

3. When faced with disagreeable occurrences, remember Epictetus’ dictum, “You are an appearance, and not at all the thing that has the appearance.”

4. Evaluate whether it involves what is in your control or what is outside it. If it is the latter, readily recognise that it is not related to you.

5. When you don’t get what is desired, you’re unfortunate: when you are confronted with what you oppose to, you stumbled on misfortune.

6. If you desire what is not in your control, you will likely be out of luck. Disconnect from your distaste for things outside your will and desire the good that lies within it.

7. Death is not unpleasant, your judgement about death is unpleasant.

8. When things are turning out poorly, the illiterate shifts blame, the partially literate blames himself, and the well informed blames neither himself nor someone else.

9. Your wife and children are not yours, they have been endowed to you. Like this, when death calls, readily let them go and yield to your departure with no second thought.

10. Do not pursue expectancy, instead desire for events to occur as they like and you will never be thwarted.

11. Sickness impedes the body, not your capacity for choice, unless your choice desires it hinder itself.

12. Every thing that unfolds, turn inwards and inquire into yourself what power you possess for taking care of it.

13. When challenged by hardship, you will discover tenacity. When challenged by mistreatment, you will discover forbearance. If you adjust to it, you will stop being misled by impressions.

14. You don’t lose anything which isn’t yours, you simply give it back. The way in which the giver takes it does not pertain you; so long as you have it, look after it without trying to own it.

15. It is more preferable to expire of starvation without terror than live troubled amongst prosperity.

16. Whether a blunder or a thieving, such are the cost of being unperturbed and composed.

17. Imagination nurtures more suffering than reality.

18. Muse on life’s beauty, gaze at it and flow openly with it.

19. You should allow others to think an idiot of you, with no want for noticing them. If people think highly of you, be wary.

20. Fool is he who wants to have his friends, family and wife evermore; to control things which are beyond your control, and to have ownership over things that are not yours.

21. If you want freedom, give up your desire or evasion for anything outside your control.

22. It is your judgement of events and things that weigh you down. That being so, do not wait to show careful concern to another who has met hardship, yet be cautious not to complain inwardly.

23. It is your personal belief which annoys you, not a person’s actions. Do not be misled by impressions, slow down and buy yourself time to control yourself.

24. Contemplate on the loss of life regularly, chiefly death. In doing so, you will not have despicable or intemperate yearnings.

25. Avoid looking unduly sophisticated but embrace those things that are suitable to you as if appointed by divinity. In doing so, those who formerly mocked you will be moved, but if you are thwarted by their scorn, you will be mocked twice as much.

26. If you insist that someone else should be deprived of the good for you to gain things that are bad, think about how unjust and thoughtless you are.

27. Nothing detrimental by nature takes place in the world. For, a mark is not erected to be missed, but hit.

28. Consider with each action what paves the way and what comes after it. Proceed by taking that into consideration.

29. Do not unenthusiastically undertake things, don’t be a rascal who imitates every impression with little consideration. Undertake things with unswerving commitment and only after musing on it from every perspective.

30. Good fortune is a consequence of the convergence between intention and chance.

Filed Under: Stoicism

Machiavellianism: Don’t Dirty Your Hands

April 8, 2021 by Artful Prudence Leave a Comment

“Do everything pleasant yourself, everything unpleasant through third parties. By adopting the first course you win favor, by taking the second you deflect ill will. Important affairs often require rewards and punishments. Let only the good come from you and the evil from others.”

Baltasar Gracian

The powerful ensure a stainless reputation through getting others to do the work for them. After all, who wants to be seen with a bloody face in public after some necessary but nevertheless dangerous dirty work? The wise leader always has his reputation in mind, ensuring that it will not be afflicted by dangerous deeds which could have been averted through calculated and oblique means.

For that reason, a wise man always has a fall man [scapegoat] who takes the blame for his unethical yet inevitable deeds that are demanded of him. A fall man is not always within his inner circle, there are instances where a fall man is a naive outsider who is willing to do him favours and enslave himself to the superior’s benefit. Such a man is usually easy to persuade and control and thus convenient for the job.

The wise cover their tracks and make use of third parties to fulfil their demands while keeping their hands clean. In doing so, they achieve their ends while getting others to do it. Nonetheless, such concealed affairs come with a threatening uncertainty, for if a scapegoat is not treated appropriately and exterminated at the right time, you could be paying for the consequences yourself, not only dirtying your hands but potentially destroying your reputation. For that reason, there must be swift treatment imposed on the scapegoat. The treatment should be neither merciful nor too cruel, for both will rouse adverse setbacks.

There will be a junction where you must separate yourself from the scapegoat, whether through crushing your enemy totally [Law 15] or being the man who imposes justice. The latter will make you seem like the lawful and blameless person that you aren’t [in this situation], yet will convey the suitable semblance to keep your hands clean. Making an excuse or warranting an apology are not sufficient in such a state of affairs, as both will bring with them adverse aftermaths that will stain their reputation. In addition, when utilising a scapegoat, any prospective uncertainty related to your deeds must be wiped out immediately before the complication expands. Remember, it is wiser to eliminate a traitor than keep him around with the likelihood of betrayal and worse.

The powerful all know how to shift blame, not merely on anyone, but on a fitting scapegoat who will take blame for their cruelty. Is this moral conduct? clearly not, yet as you climb the ladder of power, there will be necessities which demand immorality that are both crucial and inevitable and the only way to fulfil them without dirtying yourself is to have the appropriate people around you for the job. With terrible immorality comes terrible punishment, which too will be deflected from the wise since the master can’t afford to undergo such penalties without suffering the horrifying outcomes.

“The courtier uses his gloved hand to soften any blows against him, disguise his scars, and make the act of rescue more elegant and clean. By helping others, the courtier eventually helps himself.”

Robert Greene

Folly is only confirmed when you are incompetent to conceal it, all men do foolish things to varying degrees, but while fools expose their errors, the wise keep them covered. In fact, it is more about what you don’t say than about what you say. If you consider the few steps that lie ahead, you will be better armed to organise the ideal next move with foreknowledge. Someone who is straightforward is an easy target, but someone who knows how to twist and turn is hard to lay hold of.

If you need a favour from someone, confer a favour yourself before asking for one, this puts them under an obligation. Nonetheless, directly demanding a favour is not preferred. If you could cleverly get a favour fulfilled through indirectly coercing them, they are more disposed to comply, through a lack of understanding. The same principle applies in dealing with enemies; if you’re not strong enough to crush them, subtly direct them to attack someone who is: you will have reached your end at someone else’s expense.

To sum up, learn to delegate authority when a task is not suited for you. Appearing intemperately diligent is not admirable, it projects weakness and deficiency. The wise man will not do more than is necessary, for he knows that any excess is a manifestation of disparity, which is inadequacy to fulfil your duty in a timely fashion. Delegation buys you time and opportunity while reducing the chance of making poor decisions and imprudent errors. Entrusting unfitting work to people who are fit for the job is not weakly, it is perceptive and full of common sense. With that said, you must know, through sensible reasoning, what is fitting for you to complete and what isn’t, only then will you be certain and assured of the decisions you make.

Filed Under: Machiavellianism

Worldly Wisdom: Etiquette and Social Grace

April 5, 2021 by Artful Prudence Leave a Comment

Where social behaviour is concerned, etiquette and good manners are key; they can inflict disorder and shatter your name, or restore harmony and embellish conflict. The manner with which you do something, your capacity for elegant and dignified conduct, is a victor’s move. Graceful conduct loosens you from tricky conditions and wins you favour. It is an ingenious trick.

Balance Polarity

There is no graceful conduct without courtesy, civility and diplomacy among people, this sets the footing for a poised and charming character that is neither stiff nor apprehensive. To be stylish and poised, you must overcome your propensities, especially those that are graceless and awkward, or indicators of fragility, timidity and indecision. Flow like water, neither in opposition with yourself nor readily and carelessly opposing others. An air of effortlessness goes a long way, if you try too hard, you rouse suspicion and lack of faith, but if you don’t try at all, you will look beggarly and deficient. You must balance your polarity, and maintain a good sense of equilibrium between vice and virtue.

Grace Sweetens Everything

People find natural grace revering because it puts them at ease, gives solace to their insecurities and modulates their resistance. Both of which are to your benefit; if others feel pleasant and easy-going around you, they are more agreeable and less antagonistic, which in turn provides you with the opportunity for careful artifice. Grace is a cushion, it dresses up truth by pacifying it and mitigating its hostility. You can discern a wise man by his unhurried and measured etiquette, he disregards haste and impulsiveness and arms himself with forethought and attentiveness. All elements which parry civility and elegance are graceless; haste, rashness, impulsivity and vulgarity, all enhance the likelihood for imprudent behaviour.

Disagreeableness and Authority

Still, your poise must go with a firm disagreeableness and authoritativeness, both heighten ascendancy and elevate honour. Being disagreeable is not about being deliberately unpleasant, it is rather about refusing to permit disrespect or exploit, and knowing how to gracefully turn down others without causing them undue and needless offence. While the foolish insensibly displease others, the wise exercise discretion to take care of their civility and good judgement. Furthermore, to know when and how to be disagreeable is a mark of good sense, for one should not subvert his position or deceive himself at the expense of agreeability or lack of assertiveness. These qualities are the essential bedrock of masculine strength; reason and virtue, disagreeableness and authority.

Praise and Subtlety

To be commended and know how to commend is crucial, a thoughtful remark of approval goes a long way, and a civil and modest acknowledgement of admiration is reputable and graceful. When giving compliments, do not allow your admiration to turn into excessive flattery; such behaviour will accomplish the opposite, it will rouse unneeded uncertainty and convey a certain falsehood and duplicity that stifles your good points.

An air of subtlety in everything you do is divine and refined, it amplifies your good points and dampens your weak points. Subtlety is not flashy, it is not undisguised and transparent. It is rather an understated, tasteful demeanour that is unassuming and open, complemented with boldness and a selective and ingenious ruthlessness. Therefore, subtlety should always be contrasted with sharp strong points; a brave and daring nature, a tough spirit and a well-directed leadership that is readily disposed to command and control.

Repute and Care

There is no grace without a sense of thoughtfulness and regard, you must know how to guard your reputation with tact and leverage it in the right social settings to magnify its worth. Remember, a sound reputation always augments your strong points, but one fatal error could destroy your stature very quickly. Preserving a good reputation is easier than carving it, thus, when you have cultivated a sound name for yourself, take good care that you do not let its prosperity pervert you into neglecting it and misusing it for ill means.

Part of having a good reputation is knowing how to employ it wisely and knowing how to assist the right people around you, both for their benefit and yours. While etiquette is important, it is to your benefit to work on your character and constantly polish it through diligent discipline and lawful habits that will expand and illuminate your stature and social affairs.

Filed Under: Power

Worldly Wisdom: Inscrutable Composure

April 2, 2021 by Artful Prudence Leave a Comment

“Imperturbability, the spirit’s most sublime quality. An impassive person’s very superiority frees them from subjection to vulgar, passing impressions. There’s no greater mastery than mastery over yourself and your emotions; it amounts to a triumph of free will. And when passion affects you, don’t let it affect your office, least of all when this is important. This is an intelligent way of avoiding upsets and a shortcut to renown.”

Baltasar Gracián

In the realm of power, demonstrations of weakness are dangerous leveragers that can work against you and spell your doom. To embody a self-possessed imperturbability is the mark of an elevated character that has mastered his emotions and conquered his passions. Composure is not only relevant in the domain of power, to successfully play the social game demands the cultivation of self-control, one of the most indispensable qualities of good judgement and superior character. Furthermore, possessing such an invaluable faculty accelerates your fame and earns you prestige.

To develop a heightened composure, you must overcome your fits of anger and negative emotions, overt demonstrations of upset, and justification. These weak spectacles wreck your self-possession. A simple practice you should discipline yourself with is postponement from acting on your fits of anger and bad temper, and stopping yourself from divulging your feelings through wretched body gestures; slouched over, hands in the pocket, fleeting eye contact, emotional facial expressions etc.

These gestures are easily discernible, even by people who are not necessarily competent in reading social cues. When the signalling is obvious and too apparent, only few will fail to comprehend them. In doing so, then, you are shooting yourself in the foot and impairing your standing, because a man is not intended to behave like a woman in matters of social affairs. A man is intended to present himself like a well-read and strong man would; good posture, loose arms, exposed chest, and assertive yet steady eye contact which does not easily waver according to circumstance.

To be composed is to be firmly grounded in purpose and to understand yourself so deeply that the appearance and disappearance of passions, both the delightful and the dreadful ones, are observed from an objective and unbiased perspective, avoiding any heedless involvement with those negative emotions which can endanger your reputation and, in some instances, your life. The wise man knows that to be carefully and purposefully inscrutable is beneficial for the circumvention of potential threat and for the concealment of underlying incentives. Furthermore, an air of inscrutability only amplifies your apparent greatness in the face of the people, since power is a game of appearances. There is an enigmatic air that surrounds the inscrutable character, when a character is not easily discernible, it generates a mysterious intrigue and an inexplicable element that enthrals people with reverence.

To sustain such an aura is not simple, it demands serious self-control, both with your actions and your words. You must, then, cultivate an element of impassivity, to be able to hold back from making an expression and retain an inexpressive poker face that can’t possibly be deciphered by the general public. The art of impassivity has imbued in it a kind of assured arrogance that is not hubris but rather a composed and cold response conveyed in a very subtle manner. When this model of demeanour is mastered, it becomes less of strain to conduct yourself as such and preserve your sense of self-control and soundness of mind.

What’s more, when you reclaim such a heightened caution and control over your reactivity, you are more at peace with your environment, you are not constantly seeking out baseless justification and quarrelling with the foolish in an attempt to prove yourself worthy. The self-possessed and composed man knows himself and carries conviction, he need not search out for confirmation; this will only be a manifestation of self-doubt and hesitancy. Postponed reactivity also buys you time for careful calculation and scheming, it is the trick of the trade, as it were, and the wise employ it prudently in ideal situations to leverage their position. When you react at once, not only are you more disposed to say or do something indiscreet and idiotic, but you also subvert your powerful position through an apparent lack of forbearance, which is a crucial aspect of even temper.

Through consistent practice, your tolerance will strengthen and so will your endurance. Application is of supreme importance, if you are careless with your demeanour, and you lack the proper perception to apply the practice in the relevant conditions, there will be evident strife between your conduct and the circumstance at hand. It necessitates the cultivation of good taste and sensitive subtlety to discern how the practice can be employed constructively in your day to day affairs. Remember, restraint is tough to live through in the beginning since you are essentially suppressing and containing what your feelings are compelling you to act on, but the effect of committing yourself to discipline is a far-reaching mastery over your emotions, an extremely useful faculty that is conventional among the wise.

Going back to composure, a useful practice that you should take into account is meditation. There are various beneficial side effects to meditation, but people tend to develop a capacity for cognisance, sensitivity to social atmospheres and undertones, presence of mind, increased calmness and tranquillity, and a sense of loosening from reality that gives way for objectivity. These useful ramifications enhance your general composure and accentuate your psychopathic element, giving you an edge over your peers in social matters.

In addition to meditation, weightlifting also supports the cultivation of these qualities. Developing your posterior-chain muscles and strengthening your upper-back through weighted chin-ups, pull-ups and rowing motions with perfect form, are all of service to your health and good character. Furthermore, when you have an adequately developed back and posture, you present yourself in a manly, bold and aggressive fashion which commands a higher degree of respect and admiration. Not to mention, the development of a well built back makes you firmly grounded to the earth; there is a definite sense of steadiness and footing that implants your presence to the ground and a spirited aura that draws people in to accompany it.

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Rejection and Honour

March 29, 2021 by Artful Prudence Leave a Comment

Rejection is not pleasant. When you have a certain attachment to your ego and you have painted a picture, an image of your identity in your head and then suddenly you see it shatter right in front of you, it threatens the image you have of yourself.

This is partly why people say rejection stings, but it will always be more useful than failure to act or avoidance of confrontation with what you find intimidating or terrorizing. More often than not, people have a tendency to mistake false evidence for reality and then get spooked by it for a while, because such sensations are quite short-lived, they have a fleeting half-life that could not be permanently prolonged.

Nonetheless, it could be deliberately extended through entrapping yourself in a vicious circle and preserving its power over you for much longer than is necessary. Furthermore, rejection has a particular way of making you grow uncertain, insecure and dubious about your worth and what you’re made of. The people who take rejection seriously and actually feel overwhelmed by it are those who are insecure and dubious, to begin with, rejection merely aroused what was already there. A person who knows his worth will not lose it at the first instance it is threatened by what lies outside it, such a character is not firm but fragile and swayed by what is fundamentally beyond its total control. 

Your outlook on rejection must be revised before you get rejected again, because a rejection that is poorly dealt with and treated could prove to be detrimental to your progress and improvement. The rejection itself is not the problem here and this is crucial to discern unless you understand that you do not have total control over what happens in external situations and that you can’t go on avoiding rejections as a means of defending yourself.

Attempting to avoid inner conflict as a way of coping with a potential rejection is not useful, it merely enforces the problem at hand and makes you more avoidant than you were before, which in turn will drive you further away from the essence of the problem, that is, to alter your outlook on rejections so that when it is received, your internal attitude is not enfeebled by what is basically an uncontrollable occurrence.

You have absolute control over your actions and attitudes but you don’t have the same control over the actions and attitudes of others. Thus, there is an uncontrollable element in life which is simultaneously divine and inscrutable. The unpredictable and unexpected nature of life is what makes it thrilling but also mysterious and boundless. If life were to lose this uncontrollable aspect and we had total control over everything, including the exact course of future events, life would not be as meaningful as it is and existence itself would lack a striking sense of astonishment, which makes life itself an incredible and breathtaking ride which will never be uncovered. 

Going back to rejection, if you understand its basic nature, then, you can see how trivial it actually is to get rejected. Think about it, a rejection shattered the image you have of yourself and as a result, you are upset about it because you have an evident attachment to this image which exists only in your head and nowhere else. Do you see how preposterous this is? It puts things into perspective, it shows you that it is the image that is causing you upset and not the rejection itself. Therefore, you must transform your self-image by strengthening it and aligning it with reason and virtue. A weak self-image shatters easily as it is not grounded in firm virtue but weak shortcoming. This is why the weak have a hard time dealing with rejection whereas the strong are able to reject the rejection itself, as it were, and preserve their integrity without being shattered by non-acceptance.

A large part of dealing with rejection the right way is having mastery over your emotions and then arming yourself with adequate rationality to overcome the irrational feelings which compel you to act in opposition to reason. For one to overcome this inclination towards irrationality requires the cultivation of sensible, pragmatic and good reason as well as a mindful detachment from emotional thought. Remember, emotional thoughts are very fleeting but you willingly keep them around for longer than intended because you lack the reasonability and objectivity to push aside their influence and delay acting on them as a means of preserving reason. Thus, negative emotion is dragged out when you deliberately obsess over it and attempt to break it down into small minute parts and then trying to make sense of the disarray you have generated. 

When you have mastered your emotions, rejection is an invitation and not an injury. It is an invitation for advancement and refinement – if you can discern a rejection well and examine it without immobilizing yourself in the process, you can extract its inherent insight, which will fortify your character and galvanize your future actions. Most often, when rejection is misinterpreted and taken to heart, as most people tend to receive it, they don’t get to understand the insight instilled in it and all they derive from it is offence and suffering, which too are essential in some cases. But, when you can observe a rejection with rationality unclouded by emotion, not only will you derive its inherent wisdom but you will also rouse a sense of acceptance and thanks for having received such a sore rejection.

Ultimately, it is your discrimination of a rejection that determines how it will affect your sense of worth and honour. The honourable man is not swayed by rejection, a woman may attempt to poke a hole in his armour but his dignity is too sturdy to be injured and his perception too clear to be obscured by it. The nature of strong honour, then, is directed from within and its force is spirited enough so as not to be provoked by anything inferior, unreasonable or trivial. 

Publius Syrus remarks “No one ever lost honour but him who never had any.” You see, people who have honour are not disposed to lose it. But people who don’t have honour are always disposed of losing it since they never had it. Therefore, a strong sense of honour is never easily repudiated amidst threatening or otherwise acute situations, its solid foundation is the signification of good character and virtue itself and such stable basis are improbable to give in to weakness; anger, impulsive cravings, indulgence and avarice. What is left when honour is lost? Honour forms the groundwork of man, it cultivates his virtue, elevates his morals, commands both respect and admiration, and wins him favour and good name.

The abandonment of it, then, could be found to be the renouncement of virtue itself, because all that is of man’s responsibility requires a strong sense of honour, whether it is a continual discipline or the deliberate restraining from hedonism or indulgence. Honour teaches the man the nature of his own essential qualities through strengthening their might and alleviating the lesser evils while will prove to be impotent to his progress. Nonetheless, one must remember that expansive integrity demands unity and coherence. To preserve honour is simultaneously to preserve the unity and coherence of your inner workings. When there are division and conflict within, honour is found in opposition with vice. In other words, honour comes to be frail and infirm, transforming into dishonour. The degradation of dishonour stems from this divisive conflict which tarnishes one’s good points and amplifies one’s weak points through the overt demonstration of corruption and moral decay.

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